Monthly Archives: March 2014

For the Women and mothers…..

As a child I had always felt the absence of my mother.I lost her at a very early age. I even know people who have lost both their parents.But truly unlucky are those ,who have both but their parents got separated. Everyday in court I hear stories about divorce and separation.Breaking marriages have become so common now a days. I am not writing this as a lawyer.I am writing as a child who knows how it really feels like to grow up with single parent. I am writing this as woman who dreams to have family that would help her raise a children in a healthy environment. Right now I would prefer not to be a feminist. Rather I would suggest the ladies to think about it for a while. I want to make you feel that we have great responsibilities to give birth to a new generation and raise it. Therefore ladies, I request you that at least for the sake of your children avoid unnecessary arguments with your in-laws. I am not a married woman but have seen instances like divorce and separation and the bad consequences faced by the children. Losing a mother and losing a father brings about two different kinds of struggles in a child’s life. Act of god or natural death are unlucky events but seeing your parents arguing and getting separated are unacceptable. Whenever a lady first moves * to her in-law’s place, she consider her husband as the only dependable person there, who would care for her and understand her. It is also her duty to consider his parents as her own. Most of the marriages break because the wife wants to stay separate with her husband forcing him to leave his parents. Just think about the child.Children generally grow up well with their grandparents,uncles and aunts around. Today most girls had to go out working leaving their children at home alone or with maid servants. Sometimes this become unfortunate for the children and they become an all time loner lacking the capability to adjust. And when they grow up,they abandon their parents too. Today’s parents are capable of buying good education for their children but they deprive them from obtaining good cultures and values. Grey hairs bring culture with them that helps a person to develop a personality and humanity. So can’t we adjust a little bit. If you really consider your spouse as your better half, can’t you think in this way, that one half of you had been brought to earth by your parents and the other half by his and that is what makes you complete. Mother-in-law is not just a mother-in-law, she is in fact your own mother who has given birth to other half of you. On the other hand the men should also understand their wives, her fears, insecurities and all other adjustments she requires to make. You are her only strength in an unknown world called family. It would really be great if you eradicate your male ego and be more understanding. A man gets all his life to know and understand and experience the world but a woman get only few years of her life before marriage. And then the woman inside her should work but mother within her should stay at home. So it is required for all girls to learn more at an early age. If a mother is more experienced, she can use all her experience to build up a new generation because mother is the first teacher a child gets. So, if the mothers are not enough learned and experienced, she won’t be able to give enough to her child. On the other hand father’s life is a inspiration for them. So, it is very important for parents to set an example in their child’s life and it comes from how you treat each other and also the grey hairs of the family. Now, I would request the lawyers to help negotiate the problems between the couples who come to them before advising separation. They come to us for relief. Court can always offer some monetary relief, maintenance, alimony but can never mend a broken marriage or a broken family. Lawyers should be the one who should help the society grow and not to destroy it. Therefore, for the sake of some little money don’t encourage judicial separation or divorce until and unless all roads are closed.

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THE RAIN AND THE CITY

The wet street,
My wet emotions,
The cool breeze,
My frozen desires,
The thunder sound,
And my thrill,
A lazy day,
And an unfinished book,
A cup of coffee,
Some missing memories,
A drenched canvas,
And exaggerated colors,
A search for inspiration,
The scratches of my pen,
The CITY OF JOY,
And THE RAIN.

In Search of the lost motivation..

Hope you are not deaf?
Then hear my cries.
Hope you are not dumb?
Then answer my questions,
Hope you are not blind?
Then see I am bleeding.
Hope you know,
I am searching you for so long?
Then stop this hide and seek.
Hope you know I am sinking?
Then make me swim,
Hope you love me?
Then show me a glimpse of you.

Because a glimpse of you,
Is you as a whole.
Show me yourself and I will continue.
Help me find you,
Help me win or else you would lose.

I exist because I believe,
That you too exist for me.

My Waits…………………..

Sweet moments and cozy cuddle,
Cute chat and loud laughter,
Long distance but close connection,
Your whisper and my deep breath,
Kisses and happiness,
Caresses of the soul,
My sweet pain.
My fantasies and your face,
Throbbing heart and long waits,
Expectations and rejections,
Your empathy and my hope,
Boundless tears and aching soul,
My shelter and your chest,
Deep sleeps and my waits.

Life, A game of chess…

I never chose to play,
But you did.
Yours was the white pieces,
And mine was the black.
Your choice was made,
And I just played
The unwanted game.

Now Seeing my pawn getting promoted,
You want to stop.
But it is not me anymore playing,
Face the grand master.
He was the gamer
And we were the pieces,
And this is how,
The Grand Master plays.

Beautiful moment I experienced ever..

I stormed out of my house
To quarrel with you.
But even before I could
See your face,
I found myself in your arms
Gently embraced.
Though I liked it
But still I had to fight.
I maintained a good distance
And tried not to make a good exchange.
You asked me, what’s so wrong?
I answered that’s none of your concern.
Don’t ask silly questions
Of which you already knew answers.
Things started changing like magic
After that.
Me got embraced by you forever,
The most beautiful moment I experienced ever.

Ravished emotion

Standing infornt of you,
Bare and naked.

Eyes still and cold,
staring at you,
But not with hope.

She is empty from inside,
Nothing to give,
Neither pleasure nor grief.

Purity of the virgin,
Had been sucked out,
Little soul had been,
Beaten and abused,
She cried and screamed,

But there was no escape.
Covered with blood,
She stares at you.

Is he the Devil who came to kill her,
Or the Saint who came to heal her?

Where is the only piece of cloth,
She had?,
Not the reputation,
But the respect she used to wear?

The changed me……

I started seeing in you

the friend,philosopher and guide.

You started seeing in me

The best future wife.

 

All I wanted you to be protective,

possessive and caring.

All you wanted me is to be changing.

 

I wanted you to love the real me,

You wanted to love the “perfectly changed me”.

 

Now, see i have changed a lot,

Now you miss the real me.

But I am happy with the “changed” me.

 

But sorry, now I failed to love the real you.

All I could do is to forgive you,

 

Though I miss the old real me.

 

Well I am thankful to you to show me

the other side of me.

 

Hope, you will able to forgive

The changed real me,

For not able to love’

the old real you.

 

Though I tried but I failed to love the same real you.

THE DECEIVING RAIN..

LOOKING OUT THROUGH THE WINDOW,

LISTENING TO THE DEVINE MELODY,

THE POPING SOUND,

OF THE LIQUID PEARLS STRIKING THE GROUND.

OH! THE DEAREST DOWNPOUR,

DON’T KNOW WHY,

WHAT MADE ME FEEL SO ENVIOUS.

I AM FEELING SO JEALOUS OF THE EARTH,

BEING PASSIONATELY KISSED BY YOU.

FOR THE FIRST TIME,

I DIDN’T FEEL LIKE GETTING MYSELF WET.

YOU ARE SO CLOSE TO ME,

BUT I AM NOT LETTING MYSELF DRENCHED.

I DON’T KNOW WHAT HELD ME BACK

I CAN’T EMBRACE YOU.

THE FRAGRANCE OF THE EARTH,

DOESN’T  FEEL INTOXICATING ANYMORE,

I FEEL SO FORLORN.

THE WIND TOUCHING MY FACE,

DON’T SEEMS LIKE CARESSING ME ANYMORE.

ALL I COULD JUST WISH,

IS THAT YOU COULD HAVE

BLESSED US WITH YOUR SHOWER,

WHEN WE WERE TOGETHER.

JUST LIKE THE WAY YOU ARE UNIFYING

WITH THE EARTH

I NEVER THOUGHT YOU WILL DECEIVE ME

MY DEAREST CHUM.

ALL I WANTED YOU TO DO

IS TO SHOWER ON US,

SHOWING YOUR APPROVAL.

THE SUMMER BREEZE……

Today after a long time,

While having tea,

In the little tea stall,

In front of my house.

The morning breeze,

Touched my face.

Swaying way all disgust I had.

I wish I could have ,

Seized it for lifelong,

But I knew it’s impossible.

It’s the beauty of the summer breeze ,

That it loves me with all compassion,

Freedom and gentleness.

I knew it would have never did the same,

If I would have able to seize it.

I too will love you back with Care, open heartedness and free-will

Freeing myself from all selfish attachment and greed.

And I know that you would always love me back

And I continue seizing your love in my heart.